Some mistresses do not offer role play, because they consider it to be too submissive. Well, I say fuck that. I like role playing. Much of the time it's really hot. Because BDSM is theater anyway, why would it seem submissive? Isn't creating a "Domme Persona" sort of like role playing anyway?
Submissive to me is: projecting a persona that you feel your clients will like
You are not worshiping me. You are worshiping the divine feminine in me. What I represent. Not me as a person, because you don't even know me. Perhaps you are worshiping yourself in some convoluted way. Perhaps the feminine side of yourself that is repressed, which needs expression. We could conjecture about that all day!