Time and time again, I get asked, "Mistress, what would you like to do to me?" "Mistress, what is your favorite thing to do?"
And my answer is that it depends on the other person and my mood. I don't blindly go around wishing one thing would happen all the time. That's boring. And unimaginative.
There are some things that I sit back and think, wow, I really do need more of that in my life, re: kidnapping.